Negative thoughts can turn any experience into a nightmare. I consider myself quite an optimistic person. During pregnancy however, I had some stormy periods of intense negative thoughts, mainly fearful thoughts about what could go wrong with my baby, especially during birth. My imagination went often for the worst scenarios concerning my little Lucia’s health…what if she is born with less than ten fingers? What if she doesn’t even make it through birth? And what if I don’t know how to take care of her? What if…what if… what if…? Searching ways out of my nightmare during those freaking moments I […]